“Stuff doesn’t make people happy. The appreciation of stuff makes people happy.”
As soon as I read this in my Google reader I stopped and immediately posted to Twitter:
Then I pulled up MML to get the URL, hit “Tweet,” and continued reading. The next line was “Yep, go ahead and tweet it.” And then I felt like a complete tool. But that’s not the point of this.
The point is that Jess’ statement is so true. The beautiful duvet we got for our wedding doesn’t make me happy; the sight of it on a nicely made bed and the thought of the comfort it provides makes me happy. Owning a new black cardigan doesn’t make me happy; appreciating that it was exactly what I was looking for, is soft, fits me perfectly, and was only $17 makes me happy. The diamond earrings I got for my wedding don’t make me happy; appreciating their beauty and the fact that they go with everything and I can wear them every day makes me happy.
I think this statement applies to relationships too. Having a husband/boyfriend/partner doesn’t necessarily make you happy. Appreciating the laughs you share, the thoughtful things they do for you, the comfort you feel when resting your head on their shoulder or getting a big hug, that’s the stuff that makes you happy. This goes for family members, friends, co-workers, kids, and probably pets as well.
So it’s true appreciation yields happiness.
I’d love to know:
Who or what are you appreciating these days?
PS–A big thanks to Colleen for teaching me how to take a screen shot today!